How To Have Lesbian Sex 

Like everything, lesbian sex can be a bit of a mystery until you have done it. The easiest way to find out about women getting jiggy is by renting DVDs or looking on porn sites. However, in the real world, it is debatable that two lusty females are going to stop giving each other multiple orgasms just so they can answer the door to a pizza delivery boy, balding Mr Clark the pervy next door neighbour or a muscular fireman who is inexplicably searching for a lost kitty, and then ask said guy to use his mutant penis on each of them. Lesbian sex is much more interesting than that.

Flying Solo

It's not just your gynecologist who should know what you look like down below. If you've not already done it, get a mirror and properly scrutinize where everything is. We all look different and even if you are concerned that your honey pot bears a passing resemblance to the creature from the black lagoon do not worry. The sooner you acquaint yourself with the different nooks and crannies, the sooner you will appreciate how brilliant it is and what pleasure it can give yourself and your partners.

Before you have sex with another person, it's a good idea to find out what turns you on. As Woody Allen said, masturbation is sex with someone I love. Any part of the body can be an erogenous zone but areas of outstanding interest include the breasts, the clitoris and the vagina. Touch yourself up and find out what gives you the sweetest thrill.

Things Will Be Great When You're Downtown

You have found a girl who is sexier than a chocolate covered Sarah Shahi and are ready to be intimate with this person. No matter how sexually experienced an individual is we can all get a little nervous from time to time. What was a turn on for one partner can be painful or a crashing bore for another. Communication is very important. A lovemaking session should not turn into a quick fire round of the Weakest Link but it can be helpful to gently ask what your partner might like. If you are too shy to ask you should be able to tell from the noises your bedfellow makes as to whether they are enjoying themself. Where and how a woman touches you can also be a great indicator of where and how they like to touched so try mirroring for a while and see how she responds to that.

The clitoris is the most sensitive area of the human body. It has approximately 80,000 nerve endings, much much more than a penis, and serves no other purpose than to make a woman sexually aroused. While we go down the scientific route it should also be mentioned that the vagina is a self-cleaning organ. The vagina is a more hygienic place to be than the inside of a mouth. So if you're quite content to kiss a girl you should have no qualms about oral sex right? Sadly, this is not necessarily so. Some people get quite squeamish about oral sex which is a shame. As has already been mentioned, we are all different. Every person tastes and smells different. Some women are wary of anybody going down on them because they think it must be a bit icky around the vaginal area. It is not. It is lovely. To make a woman come by using your mouth is a fantastic feeling. Practice does make perfect and will deepen the intimacy between you and your partner.

Was That It?

There are no hard and fast rules on how to have lesbian sex but there are some guidelines which might be good to follow. No matter how much of a people pleaser you are, never ever fake an orgasm. You are doing yourself and your partner a great disservice. How are you ever meant to have great sex if you lie about what feels good?

Variety is the spice of life, so do not be afraid to try different things. Everyone has their boundaries but if your partner suggests something new that does not have you running for the hills, why not give it a go?

Whether it's a one night stand with a seductive stranger or making love with your partner of 25 years, lesbian sex should be a joyful and satisfying experience for everyone involved.